Domestic Abuse and Safety

Abuse involves harm, intimidation or control, and substance use does not excuse it. Recognising what is happening and finding support should centre safety and the affected person's choices.

Domestic abuse can include physical violence, sexual coercion, threats, humiliation, financial restrictions and controlling contact with other people. It can occur between partners or ex-partners and within family relationships. A person does not need visible injuries or a complete explanation to ask for help.

Alcohol or drugs may be part of the situation, but they do not make abuse the victim's fault. Treatment for substance use does not, by itself, establish that another person is now safe. Abuse should not be treated as an ordinary disagreement that both people must repair together.

If there is immediate danger or a serious injury, seek emergency help. Being strangled or having breathing deliberately restricted needs urgent medical assessment, even without visible marks. Medical care and support after sexual assault also matter.

A specialist abuse service or a healthcare professional can help someone discuss concerns and options. There is no obligation to confront the person using abuse, disclose plans to them, forgive or reconcile. Contact and information need to be considered with safety in mind if devices or movements are monitored.

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